The tragic reality of separation is the change in lifestyles of my children. As a family we would plan weekends so that kids had time for being together as a family, time to persue sports, time for one-on-one with Mom or Dad and time for themselves. Separating robs the children of the security of family…

At first you will feel like a failure. You will be walking along presuming everyone is looking at you thinking “what a loser, he got divorced.” Over time you realise they aren’t; no one cares less. Don’t worry, this feeling of failure passes. It will be replaced by a long period where you obsess…

This is how we broke some news to our children