A little bit of nothing…

John Zak
John Zak
Sep 2, 2018 · 2 min read

“Comparison is the thief of joy.”

I truly believe that. Oftentimes I feel so good about myself and the blessings God has given me, but in the wake of another person’s accomplishments, I feel as though my life amounts to nothing. It is rather sad to think that countless individuals live their lives in order to prove themselves to society and the world at large. Is a human being devoid of intrinsic worth if they are unable to outcompete others — propelling themselves on top of the dominance hierarchy?

In our society it is easy to adopt the mentality that one’s worth and dignity are inseparable from external appearances of “success.” It is equally as easy to believe you are worthless as a result of failing to live up to societal or familial expectations. Although I continue to be tempted by these alluring thoughts, today I am deciding — and inviting others to make the choice — to truly believe you are more than: your physical appearance, job status, financial situation, bodily health, or intellectual ability.

May these words by Henri Nouwen, ring fresh in your ears:

“We work tirelessly to present ourselves in a good light before others in the false belief that our identity comes from who we are in their eyes, or from what we do or what we have. We look to people outside ourselves to tell us if we are unique, acceptable, and good. We need to know from those around us if we pass the test of being someone unique and lovable. This thinking is encouraged by the world in which we live: How much money does he make? What does she own? Who does he know? Is she famous? What can he do for me? What are they writing about her? [These questions are essentially saying]. If I don’t do well or have enough money, success, or a good reputation, then I am nothing [However, the truth is…] We are not what we do. We are not what we have. We are not what others think of us. Coming home is claiming the truth. I am the beloved child of a loving Creator. We no longer have to beg for permission from the world to exist.”

John Zak

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John Zak

I write on various pertinent issues regarding Psychology, Religion, and Philosophy. The purpose of my life is simple: to love God and my neighbour.