Unraveling the Mysteries of Dating Without a Compass — Are you a single male hoping to find true love in the dating scene? Or even a single male hoping for a casual fling sometime this summer? It’s tough. We all know Tinder is saturated with scammers, flakes, and senders of unsought, anatomically complete self portraits. The other apps have…

…and other things I learned after ten years in the Sugar Bowl. — I was a sugar baby for ten years. It was an experience that was as rewarding as it was eye-opening. You might be thinking, “You’ve probably got some wild stories,” and believe me, I do. But what might surprise you the most is not the extravagant gifts, envelopes of hundred…

Treat His Vulnerability With Reverence — In ten-plus years as a sugar baby, I have spent much time communicating and bonding with men, giving me a unique perspective on marriage and all human relationships. Sugar dating isn’t just about sex. I frequently found myself providing a service that transcends the physical, an open ear, an understanding…

This one might get a little spicy. — After over a decade as a sex worker and an astute observer of human behavior, I am convinced there are exactly two types of straight men out there. The first type is uptight, self-conscious, and probably suffers from at least moderate depression, anxiety, or both. The second type is head…

Transform your relationship with your body and mind for maximum sexual fulfillment. — The journey to sexual fulfillment isn’t about a size zero figure or mastering every position in the Kama Sutra. It starts with loving and accepting your own body as it is, right here, right now. …

Picking the locks of misconception — No matter your kink, the Internet is awash in info, websites, personal ads, and everything else you can imagine to facilitate meeting like minded people. One fetish that seems to be trending in the past few years is Male Chastity. Men around the world, if the Internet is to be…

Why You’re Not as Lick-tastic as You Think — Many people are familiar with the illusory superiority bias, a cognitive phenomenon where individuals overestimate their abilities in various tasks. A notable example is driving. When polled, almost everyone thinks they are better than the average driver. Obviously, we can’t all be better than average. Recently, I wrote an article…

The Lessons Yoga Imparted on Life’s Contradictions. — When I was about 25, I started practicing yoga. At first, I only wanted it to get me in a little better shape and make me feel a bit better physically. I really got into it and took it seriously. After a few weeks, I started noticing a lot of…

Unearthing the Secrets of Sexual Mastery — Finding a date might be tricky, but ensuring sparks fly in the bedroom? Now, that’s an enigma rivaling the great Sphinx for most. How do you strike that balance between being attentive and exciting and staying true to yourself? As someone who’s seen the spectrum of bedroom theatrics, I’m here…