Mastering the art of being ‘still’
How often do we find ourselves trying to rush into things like a career, choosing a major in college, relationships, friendships, etc? But, how many of us are okay with being present and “still”? If you asked yourself that question, please be as honest and transparent as possible. We all want the reward now and try to finesse the path we’re on, but truth is — you cannot skip steps, you have to weather the storm.
This is about transparency; owning your faults, growths, and understandings. Remember when I asked if you were okay with being present and “still”? That’s what this is about. I’ve learned listening to respond isn’t an effective way to communicate and that’s not how we’re supposed to water our souls. Trust your evolution and know that the timing of events in your life is aligned specifically for a reason.
The meantime is a period of time in our lives where people often confuse it with being stagnant but in reality, this is when all the character building moments are conjuring up an evolved version of ourselves. You become more aware, more present and are moving with purpose. Allow yourself to become the person that you have always envisioned. You don’t have to wait for the highlights to happen (the flare-ups that happen sporadically during the meantime).
Understand that while working on yourself, you’re gathering some of the most vital tools you’ll need for the rest of your life. You’re learning how to deal with new adversities and objections. How good of a feeling is it to have complete control over the way you allow things to have an effect on you?
What if you thought that the idea you have of how your life is supposed to be at this moment was completely wrong and out of line with what’s really for you? That’s where the timing comes in and why being “still” is so vital. We have to let life teach us things first. We have to talk to God and ask the Universe to send signs. Be direct. Be open. How many missed opportunities do you think we’ve all had because we rushed our lives when we didn’t even know what was best for us at that time?
Stop taking life so serious and enjoy the moment you’re in. Love yourself. Love your spouse. Love your friends. Love people. The best rewards come to those who are in no rush with life and those who understand the true meaning of living their life on purpose. Tear down whatever expectations you may have, hold yourself accountable and don’t be afraid to make mistakes.
