The issue at the root, essentially, is that we never learn the art of solitude.
An accurate understanding of a concept is a prerequisite for using the simplest combination of words to discribe it.
Failure is not a sign of personal incompetence. It’s just one experiment that has gone wrong. I keep moving. That’s what matters. Jonathan Mildenhall once said “If you don’t have room to fail, you don’t have room to grow.