In the world today, the choices we makes as young adults powerfully influence us the rest of our lives. Is this true? there was a 25 year old woman named Emma who was having identify crisis. she lived with her boyfriend who showed more abused than affection to her. Emma was always having session with her counselor. Her counselor told her “you can’t pick your family but you can pick your friends” . That goes to show that Emma was always hanging out with a bad crowd when she was younger instead of focusing on her career and have everything in place by the time she turned thirty.