Syrian Refugee Family In Argentina Returns To “Safer” Aleppo
CÓRDOBA — The Touma family fled Syria’s civil war and landed late last year in Argentina, with the prospect of finally finding some modicum of peace and economic stability. They settled in the central Argentine city of Córdoba, and have spent the past four months trying to adapt to the local lifestyle. But they found none of what they’d hope for — and have now decided to return home, to their devastated hometown of Aleppo.
As they were getting ready to head back to Syria, they spoke with Clarín from the terminal of Ezeiza airport outside of Buenos Aires on May 11, explaining not only is it much cheaper to live in Aleppo than Córdoba, it is actually “safer” too.
Tawfiq, the 40-year-old father, and his wife Ani Habad, 29, had arrived earlier this year with their two daughters Kristel (12) and Mari (10), all seemed tired, somewhat overcome by their situation. At the prospect of returning to Aleppo, the family said they was a mix of anticipation and trepidation. There is still little good news coming from their native country, half destroyed by a seven-year civil war that has left more than 300,000 dead.
“They came in search of a dream,” says Mustafa, a family friend and fellow Syrian who has been living in Argentina for more than 30 years. “They were told they would have a house and work. But when they came, they found nothing.”
Since 2012, some 1,600 Syrians have come to Argentina through various channels: the Argentine government’s Syria Program (providing humanitarian visas), applications for asylum or family reunions with registered refugees, or through other types of migratory visas given by Argentine consulates. The main destinations have been the capital, the Buenos Aires province, Córdoba, Salta, Mendoza, La Rioja, Tucumán and San Luis.
The Toumas came to the town of Pilar outside Córdoba, in December 2016. Whatever they had here was provided them by sympathetic neighbors. One neighbor even took charge of the rent they had to pay for a house and its day-to-day expenses, even lending the family a car. “Everything they had came from people’s individual solidarity. But they did not want live off others,” Mustafa says. “They wanted to recover their dignity. The state had to help and it didn’t. It made various promises it didn’t keep.”
We thought our daughters would have a future here.
Tawfiq told the Córdoba newspaper La Voz he was unprepared for the cost of living in Argentina. “We thought life would be cheaper here and our daughters would have a future,” he said. “With $10 you can live for a week (in Aleppo), but here everything is gone right away.”
But beyond the lack of economic means, the family also was shocked by the state of crime they found in Argentina. “Soon after they arrived, thieves entered their house and took everything. That does not happen in Syria,” Mustafa said, translating for the family.
After the robbery, he said, Tawfiq could not shake off the fear: “He was afraid for his daughters. He would call me three times a day to say he wanted to leave.”
Before they left, Cordoba neighbors and their Syrian relatives tried to convince them to stay, that returning to Syria was dangerous. But the family insisted that the situation in Aleppo had stabilized, which is partly true, even if the country is still very much a war zone. Nonetheless, the family is grateful for the few months of shelter they received, and they are carrying home with them an Argentine flag and mate equipment used to brew the southern cone’s typical herbal tea.
Tawfiq, who was injured in a bombardment, said he would reopen his perfume shop in the city. “If that does not work out I can work as a taxi driver,” he said. “I can’t do that here.”
Jerry Nelson is an American freelance writer and ghostwriter now living the expat life in Argentina. Never far from his coffee and Marlboros, he is always interested in discussing future work opportunities. Email him at email@example.com and join the million-or-so who follow his life and work on Twitter @ Journey_America and Facebook.
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