When was the last time you went out on a real date?

#NotYourNetflixAndChill

I know l’ll be getting a lot of raised eyebrows but I guess that’s what most people get when they speak about reality. So, let’s just agree to disagree.

They say respect begets respect. It is earned and must not be imposed. A wise person told me this, and that person is me. Haha!

So how come you ladies want to date serious men and keep on bad-mouthing “fuccbois” but always end up with the latter? How and why? Probably the answer lies on the person in front of the mirror.

There’s no such thing as a fuccboi. Nah-uh, no sir. In my opinion, they’re just the end result of your decisions.

Ladies, you allowed them to use, hurt, manipulate and play you in and out of bed. How hard is it to say NO? How effin’ hard is it to say no to those sexy abs, toned body and tempting ass? What more if he knows how to turn your switch on?

Most of us has been in this kind of situation. But before you lower your underwear, learn to raise your standards. Know your value. And always remember, you’re worth the wait.

When was the last time you actually went on a date? A real one. I’m talking about the dates that makes you stay up all night reminiscing because it’s so “kilig”.

It’s nice to feel special. Let a guy turn you on with his personality and intelligence. Not with what his body can do. Let’s face it, ikaw na malandi ka, nagpapalitan pa lang kayo ng messages, iniisip mo na agad kung masarap sa kama. Guilty bes?

Tapos, kapag nasaktan dahil naloko. Magpapaawa at magra-rant sa social media? Oh please!

I’m not perfect. Baka nga mas malandi pa ako sayo bes. But just like an “ate” to a younger sister, I don’t want you getting hurt.

So, the next time you meet a guy, don’t think about what lies beneath his pants. Focus on knowing what’s underneath the facade. If he can not contribute to your growth, then walang forever bes.

Go and think about it.