Your piece contrasts men who have addiction, personality problems with an the opposing “real men” group who are accomplished and are on the upward mobility track. This implies that men who are not ‘accomplished’ and on the upward mobility track have done something wrong. It suggests that everything that ever happened to them to keep them from being in the upper echelon of success is all their fault.
So what is it? How do you define what makes “real men”. What defines a “real woman”?