Who to keep and who to omit in our life.
In life we have different kinds of people. There are those who stand by you and move with you at all times(gains and pains).On the other side are this people(haters) who will not sleep until they see you cry,frustrated and completely stranded.
Trust me I was a victim of this I was afraid of loosing some people, little did I know that letting them go will later bring relief to me. I used to cry, think a lot, feel useless and disappointed. But one day I sat down and contemplated for a while and made up my mind to concentrate with what will help me grow.
If you see me now, I have really improved; crying, and getting myself stressed out was the biggest mistake I ever did. I moved on,how did I do this? I omitted useless people in exchange for more important and encouraging ones.
I once learnt something and I think you should know it too, I agree by the fact that no matter how perfect you are you have a hater. This haters are brought about by jealousy,and the fact that they would love to be like you. So it’s normal to have haters friends.
Charles Richards said this,
Don’t be fooled by the calendar. There are only as many days in the years you make use of,one man gets only a week’s value out of a year while another man gets a full year’s value out of a week.
Time is life and therefore spend your time and life with useful people those who help you elevate, encourage and uplift you.
Walk with intelligent people and intelligence will chase you. Talk with great people and you will acquire greatness. Accept criticism because it pushes you forward. My mentor Mr. Fourox said in his article that critics is like fuel that keeps us moving even more faster. Which is very true.
I will not tell you who drags you behind, because you know better than anyone. But think,rethink and think again. It’s the only thing you need to do. You better have one person who helps you improve and progress than have ten people who ensure that you notice negativity in everything you do. Let them go, for your own benefit.
Give a chance to those people who are willing to elevate you. Please just be certain that the people in your life are moving you forward,and don’t forget this, we have wolves in sheep’s clothing, be careful.
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