Jelly BeanDon’t Play with a Narcissist: The Game You Can’t WinI was furious. I wanted to finally confront the narcissist, to unleash all the pain they had caused me. In my mind, I crafted countless…3d ago13d ago1
Jelly BeanWeaving With Dark Threads — Generational TraumaGenerational trauma is like a dark thread running through an ancestral quilt.Aug 18Aug 18
Jelly BeanRe-Parenting OurselvesRe-parenting oneself is a profound psychological process that involves healing the wounds left by emotionally immature or neglectful…Aug 4Aug 4
Jelly BeanChildhood Trauma & Letting GoOne of the most persisting things about childhood trauma is the deep anger that a person feels — anger that they may not be aware of until…Aug 2Aug 2
Jelly BeanSurviving vs. LivingThe survival mode of being is very subconscious, and it is one way we can operate in the world. Arguably, it is most common among people…Jul 24Jul 24
Jelly BeanA Subconscious Outcrop“The mother’s unconscious is the child’s reality.” — Harold SearlesJul 15Jul 15
Jelly BeanFree Association & Psychic ‘Structures’Imagine a landscape, like that in space. A bunch of large, fantastical objects are scattered across it. Some floating above the ground…Jul 14Jul 14
Jelly BeanDisorganized Attachment & Funhouse Mirror RealityDisorganized attachment is when a person is both scared of intimacy and also deeply craving it, oscillating between avoidant and anxious…Jul 7Jul 7
Jelly BeanGrowth — Attempting, Trying, ReachingIt is an interesting phenomenon that occurs when we identify that we are not the cleverest in the room — either among our colleagues or…Jan 20Jan 20