So, I had no idea who you were until I read this just now, but I am going to immediately buy every single book you’ve ever written, and I will be spending all of my spare time reading them in the next few weeks. My weight gain journey is crazy similar to yours… depression brought on meds, coupled with success that brought on a lack of time and energy for things like working out, but success also brought massive stress and anxiety which changed the meds, plus fighting particular hereditary conditions, etc = curvy AF (w/giant boobs) and yet everyone is DTF!! Haha! Who knew! I only wish I could have handled it with as much confidence as you clearly have. The worst part is, I grew up having a body that was very close to what is considered “perfect” by society (I realize there is no such thing), and I hated my body then too, possibly more! There’s no winning until you find a way to love yourself no matter what. And, ironically, the loving yourself is what makes a person sexy. So happy I stumbled across you today!! :)