How to Deal with “Love Hurts”

It has been said that laughter is the best medicine, if you put it in another things that is. But how about dealing with love? Does laughter can help you at all? Does it bring cure to a wounded heart?

Diverting your attention from the aches that you are feeling and pay your attention to the enjoyment of life thinking that it’s not yet the end of the world, how about that? Will it bring peace to a mind and heart? But how about when the day is done and you are on your own, can you still escape the pain? You may escape it for a moment but it will never last and when you are bound again in this “LOVE HURTS” I tell you it hurts more than before.

Many people suffer in their journey of life, not because of money or poverty but because of the lack of knowledge or should I say fail of dealing this “LOVE HURTS”. People seek things on how they can overcome the pain that this love could bring. Being drunk, socializing to the people thinking that they can lean you a hand, maybe they can but is it the solution you’re looking for. Involving to drugs and involving to immorality, can you picture it out? The outcome of the story? Let me continue. After having these activities for you to forget the pain, you find yourself failing in the class or in the workplace where you worked in. you get irritated so easily and thinking it is you against the world. Give up already? After experiencing such horrible things you find yourself standing on the rooftop of a 10-storey building and “toOOgsh”.

Sad isn’t it? Common urban stories? But still lots things like these happen every now and then. The question is, how will you deal it if it happens to you? Simple

1st just accept the reality it will be difficult at first but it will be more easier if you seek a friend ask an advice probably the opposite sex I am sure they can give you a good advice.

2nd do not look for a solution, it will probably come even if you don’t seek it, cause if you do, I tell you it is not the solution.

3rd make a confession that it hurts and it will continue in hurting and in no time you find yourself moving on, do not escape the pain but face it and don’t fool yourself by telling lies.

4th and probably the last, forgive the person who caused you the pain and you will find yourself in midst of a peaceful breeze place, not just you but also for the person whom you give your forgiveness.

“The joke is no longer laughable once you heard it already, so why let the pain hurt you twice?”