Too much female energy can fuck you up. Trust me, I know. — Never send your daughter to an all-girls school. I’m adamant. Don’t. I graduated from an all-girls international school in Tokyo in 1990. The classmates’ parents were CEOs, business owners, and diplomats. In my class alone, there were 60 countries represented. I get why my parents decided to send me there…

Feminine rage is ancestral pain passed down through generations of trauma inflicted by patriarchy on women. — My mom was beautiful. Her fair skin could light up a dark alley full of local merchants selling fruits and vegetables. I studied her as she asked the merchant for the price of cabbage. He’d spit out a number and she’d fire back. …

American males aren’t doing well at all. *Trigger warning: talk of suicide — A week before Christmas 1998, *Brent hung himself on a tree in his parent’s backyard. He was only 19. His brother and I were going to get married over the summer. The weekend before he died, we invited Brent to stay with us. It had been around two weeks since…

The movement inspired by Wren Eleanor, the 3-year-old influencer, should be a wake-up call — A TikTok mom has stirred quite a controversy lately, with many calling her out for exploiting her 3-year-old daughter Wren Eleanor. Wren has a huge following of 17.3 million people on TikTok. …

What better place to explore that desire than Thailand? — “OMG, What happened?” My friend shouted. My regular Thai hairdresser had just shaved half my head. Before she did, she put her hands on my shoulder. Then gazed into my eyes. “You sure, ya? Cut cut, ya?” “Yes, yes, cut, cut,” I responded mimicking a scissor with my fingers. “Okay…

The book club is for all genders, including men. Our first book: Of Boys and Men by Richard Reeves. — Hey Bitchys, Do you miss having a respectful and reasonable space to discuss and debate? A community where you come together for the love of books or ideas or an author? Introducing the Bitchy Book Club brought to you by Bitchy. The book club is for all genders. We hope…

It takes courage, enormous courage to leave something that is bringing you down and killing you. I can relate. — Childhood trauma is a cunning piece of shit. It rears its ugly head when you least expect it. Prince Harry was traumatized as a little boy when he lost his mom, Diana, in a car accident. In his memoir, Spare, he says that when he was looking at the pictures…

Beauty filter culture is a reminder that women still need to be photoshopped to look acceptable. — I started a Tiktok account a month ago. I don’t like pictures or videos taken of me. But on TikTok, I don’t mind. My skin glows. It’s poreless and smooth. I look a decade younger. I’m not big on make-up, but the week I started TikTok, I bought a new…