Software engineer @Rentlio
You are not victimised by those people/relationships. You are victimised by your expectations of those people/relationships.
Sometimes, we are also hypocrites. We grant ourselves excuses we deny everybody else. They do not have the right to have a bad day, to be tired, jumpy, etc.
This doesn’t in any way mean that dreaming is bad. Dreams are often like a large bowl of idea soup — from which we feed, and draw goals.