I think you missed SEVERAL points in this article, the main one being that he/she and the idea that one must be either/or is a social construct. Just because you have invested in the belief of this construct does not make it true or real. There are other realities, and I’m telling you about them. If you consider yourself an ally, you’d do well to listen, consider, and take the suggestions and advice from a member of the LGBT community. Yes, we are small in number — that does not make us any less real or valid, and believe me, we have PLENTY of things to worry about.