You ALWAYS believing an accuser and NEVER believing the accused simply because a finger was pointed? Imagine if that same level of jurisprudence was given to you should you ever be accused of committing a crime. No evidence. No discovery. You’re sold. You know putting a case before a judge and jury isn’t victim blaming. We’re a civilized society and we aren’t going to stop trying people before we convict them regardless of whatever jeopardy an accuser puts themselves in. Shame on you and shame on Medium for giving you a platform. When I see Medium anywhere, I will avoid it and its advertisers like the plague.