… possible (but do that if you feel inspired!). When I say that you should have sex like a traveler, I mean that when you meet someone new, you should let go of any agenda you may have, let go of your fear of judgment or getting hurt, and treat people as if your time with them is limited.
Despite all that magical thinking that you’ve learned over so many decades, your body is simply a body, and its size is simply a size. Your weight is not your happiness, your capacity for love, your capacity to be loved, your worth, or your worthiness.
’re “on the ground …only used as a lazy, somewhat self-righteous substitute for “parachuting into a developing nation.” I get countless pitches from writers who tell me they’re “on the ground in [insert country in Africa, Asia, or Latin America].” A question: When they return home, do they not walk on the ground?