If you aren’t going to educate yourself through research by people who have lived these experiences, nor listen to their stories, then you need to not speak to the topic. The black male speaking about this topic is like a “black Republican,” completely ridiculous. You can go to this website https://nationalseedproject.org/white-privilege-unpacking-the-invisible-knapsack and download the PDF and see if perhaps you can educate yourself. You will never change my mind on this topic as I have lived it, it has been highly researched, and your research by a male has no place in this argument.