Why House of Balloons Is The Weeknd’s Perfect Social Commentary.

Tayo Magbagbeola
7 min readOct 29, 2023

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The mixtape House of Balloons, released in 2011, marked our formal introduction to the world of Abel Tesfaye; who remains to be one of the most successful and influential artists to emerge in recent years for contemporary R&B. This project is notable for its particularly dark and moody R&B style that explored hedonism and isolation, which in comparison to his peers; was groundbreaking for the genre and helped popularise the Dark R&B niche we see today with artists like Brent Faiyaz and Nobu Woods. Yet beneath the haze of drugs and late-night parties lies a sharp social commentary on loneliness and the emptiness of excess. Within this, we’ll look at why specifically this project is trying to say what it says and why it works so well for its themes.

What “The Weeknd” character has to contribute to the message:

When looking at this character, we also must understand the context of The Weeknd in 2009–2012. Due to his anonymous releases, for the most part, the identity of who The Weeknd was had people confused. His whole identity was so shrouded that while working at American Apparel, they would play his music, not knowing he was an employee. Because of the confusion around who or what The Weeknd was, people started theorising who he was — many thought it was a name for a band or singer-producer combo, which made sense given the production quality was pretty good for the time and thus made more sense that it would probably be an indie band and not a solo indie artist.

This is important for analysing the project as it was sacrosanct for this persona to be mysterious for the topics discussed as they were very crude and also indecent in nature to listen to. In addition to this, the distasteful character portrayal serves well as it was a manifestation of that lifestyle without the bias of knowing the artist. The very essence that he was faceless was to demonstrate the blistering reality of what he was saying. Theres no room for excusing his behaviour because of his looks or what prestige he has, you have to look at the character objectively for his actions which leads you to actually hearing what he is saying in this project which aren’t rosy or joyful to listen to in terms of subject matter. So when throughout the project, he says stuff that would have you questioning a person on their morality if they were to say the same thing or do the same thing, the message rings home harder because of this anonymity. This is important as the transparency of this character bundled with the malicious nature in what he talks about gives us a sense of danger. However, it’s important to distinguish Abel from The Weeknd in this work when analysing what it has to say about the topics were going to discuss. In this narrative, The Weeknd is a character but is not Abel himself while resembling some of Abel’s lived experience in his formative years especially around drug use and homelessness. With that in mind, this is a key pillar for why this project is a good commentary because from the jump, we are forced to view the character of The Weeknd with upmost objectivity to analyse his character and message of the project.

The unspoken commentary poltrayed in the music:

In addition to the first pillar of forcing us, the audience, to view the record from an objective lens to the character’s actions. The second key pillar is how well Abel interweaves an unspoken social commentary about the trap of hedonistic excess & how its usually just a front for a person to cover up their insecurities and loneliness. The approach he does it is very interesting and sets it apart from other commentaries about it.

Unlike a normal thematic project about the vices of life and how it only brings fleeting joy and features a hyperfixation on how it corrupts the soul by focusing on someone who gets roped into the scene, Abel disrupts this trope by fixating on a morally dubious narcissist who is already in that life and is webbing people into it. Despite the obvious moral decay this character displays in this mixtape, he’s somehow able to build a case for sympathy for even the most morally deprived. In this, Abel delivers the reality of how this character operates and basically by just hearing what he gets up to, you don’t feel outward emotions of anger towards what he does but instead a deep pity for the character as he ultimately is in his own personal hell regarding his lifestyle of drugs and endless sex and is held in a loop of his own behaviour.

For Context, the story begins on “High for This” as The Weeknd seduces a girl with drugs, setting the tone for his addictive and dangerous relationships. “What You Need” explores the obsessive romance of trying to get this girl to leave her boyfriend for him, while “House of Balloons/Glass Table Girls” vividly depicts a party scene with cocaine and pill-popping with people not enjoying the party and him having a semi panic attack. “The Morning” arrives as the character wakes up disoriented next to this mystery girl hes been feining over but soon she leaves him high and dry. Then in “Wicked Games”, we see him reach a new low when he hires out a prostitute for a one night stand just to feel something after this and begging her to say she loves him despite the fact he knows she doesn’t. As the mixtape progresses, the emptiness beneath the extravagance becomes apparent. By “The Party & The After Party” He realises he can only find solace in more drugs. “Coming Down” is a post-high crash filled with depression and loneliness as he longs for this girl. In “Loft Music” he realises his lover is as numb as he is inside. By “The Knowing”, the relationship has already fallen apart and he suspects his girl has been unfaithful and is leaving him and despite him knowing it, he is still devastated by the loss but regardless will try again with another woman.

We can see that by the end of project, he just ends up in the same place he started. Within the Narrative, the character of The Weekend has built himself a self contrived loop, which acts as his own personal inferno. At the core of this, this is caused by the character’s inner most fears and insecurities around his own existence and of his thoughts of loneliness. This then translates to the thin veil of manipulation and narcissism in which he ropes in people to satisfy his basic need for validation of his existence. In this, he goes to parties just to find solace in the chaos of his life, chases sex just for intimacy and drugs because when he sells them, he feels valued in some part despite its inherent parasitic nature. However, the joy is fleeting and people leave at some point when they please which only reinforces his previous fear of his own existence and loneliness in which he’s bound to repeat the cycle again and again, back where he started. Through this, we don’t see him as a mastermind or a cunning smooth-talker that he would like to depict through the lyrics but instead, a lost man stuck in his own personal hell of drugs, parties and sex of which he can’t escape. This serves a sobering message on the true damage this lifestyle can do to a man who is already broken from within and keeps him in this loop. The question of agency in this is voided as yes we can agree that this is of his own doing but the excesses of his life keep him bound to this lifestyle thus making it virtually impossible to leave this.

We are forced to see this character with pity mostly and a sense of empathy in the fact that its not because he likes the short term gains of hookup sex or nights filled with endless drugs just for the fun of it; he does it because centrally his fear and insecurities pervert the things he really wants and he’s just off the mark in finding it. With the actions he commits, he truly just wants love, affection and for validation that he exists but he simply doesn’t know how to go about it in a healthy or productive manner thus he goes for it the only way he knows how, through hedonistic excess, which leaves him in the hell he’s made for himself. This is pivotal to the message as Abel was essentially going against the grain of the music industry and making us, the audience, really assess our favourite artists when they talk about the lifestyle as he’s saying the short term pleasures don’t last and only leads to you becoming more hollow, the more you indulge in it.

In Conclusion, through the hedonistic narrative arc of House of Balloons, The Weeknd brilliantly provides an unspoken social commentary on the emptiness of excess and the hellish inferno of loneliness it creates. By objectively depicting a protagonist indulging in drugs, sex, and self-destruction to fill his inner void, the album makes us sympathize with the humanity behind the decadence. The Weeknd reminds us that beneath the surface, the root of this toxic hedonism stems from deep loneliness, insecurity, and perverted ideas of love — a profound insight into the melancholic side of fame and validation-seeking. House of Balloons serves as a genius cautionary tale on the dangers of reckless indulgence by immersing us in the harrowing inferno of an addictive lifestyle, ringing the alarm on hedonistic excess and its capacity to ruin lives when taken too far. Through artful narrative, The Weeknd reveals that no high lasts forever, thus making it his perfect commentary on the topic.

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