While dancing with a gay man at a night club I decided I better tell him I’m trans before he found…

evidence t…r reason than gender self-identification should be an individual privilege, not imposed by others). I am also not suggesting there is no discrimination against transgender people among gay men or that no gay men are transphobic. There is plenty of evidence to the contrary.

Are Gay Men Cisgender?

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M. J. Murphy

Kaig Lightner

1 min readJan 19, 2020

While dancing with a gay man at a night club I decided I better tell him I’m trans before he found out the hard way. No pun intended. I had to specifically tell him I don’t have a penis. He looked appalled. He walked away.

Written by Kaig Lightner

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Queer|trans|Nonprofit ED|Consultant|Believer in a future where the spectrum of gender is accepted as the norm, not the exception.

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