You signed the waiver

One thing to always keep in mind is that you are responsible for your own happiness. I know it’s a cliche, but we often forget that other people don’t hurt us-it’s us that open ourselves up to be hurt. It’s easy to blame someone for breaking your heart, but we’re so quick to forget that we were the ones that once loved them first, and that’s like an invisible waiver for heartbreak.

If we break our own hearts loving someone, who says we can’t heal it as well by loving ourselves?