2 Simple Ways so you Don’t Lose Out Again

Life is full of ups and downs and sometimes has a few curve balls thrown too. When things go wrong or not as planned, or when something happens to throw us off balance and doubt ourselves it can be tough to deal with.

After all, we all want things to go well. But in reality that’s not how things go, we have times of adversity and times of prosperity, times of challenges and time of ease…

Life will always throw challenges at us, and we can’t control everything. Nor should we try.

What’s important is it’s not what happens to us but more what we do with what happens and that is what makes the difference….

When life gives you lemons, make Lemonade!

  • Here are 2 easy ways that you can use.
  1. Focus on Your Strengths

Sometimes happy, sometimes sad; sometimes hopeful, sometimes pessimistic; sometimes childish and sometimes mature. We also have a whole load of strengths and weaknesses that affect what we do and how we do it, but we tend to put more focus on our weaknesses and not our strengths.

A strength is something that you do consistently well – it’s something you’re just able to do, you’re hard-wired to do it well and you get an inherent satisfaction from doing it. It could be tackling and solving complex problems, empathising with people, having a lively imagination or being able to make the perfect omelette.

Focusing on what you do well rather than what you’re not so good at makes all kinds of sense. When you look at what you’re not good at you feel bad about yourself and your ability, but when you focus on and play to your strengths you’re guaranteed to get results, and can even eliminate any negative effect your weaknesses might have.

You get to choose what you focus on !!!

2. Set Things Up Ahead Of Time

Sure, there will be times when you can just head into something, do brilliantly at it and get the result you were hoping for (normally if you’re playing to your strengths), but other times you might blunder forwards, wing it and not get the result you wanted.

Whatever challenges or opportunities you’re facing you’ll stand a much better chance of getting a great result if you set things up to succeed ahead of time.

So what exactly do you want to happen?

What solution, outcome or result would be great? Get really clear on the outcome you want from what’s facing you and how it would feel to get the outcome you’re looking for.

Then start breaking it down – what can you do to set things up so that your desired outcome happens?

What needs to be put in place?

What will help to make what you want to happen, happen? And to ensure the best outcome, what are you willing to do?

Im on a mission to encourage, motivate , inspire and help You on your journey so that you tap into a more empowered version of yourself.

See yourself through eyes of mercy , love and compassion.

Message me to Book “Your Clarity Session”now

We’ll work together to create a crystal clear vision of the empowered version you want to Embody.

We’ll also uncover the challenges that may be sabotaging you from confidently living YOUR purpose-driven, passionate and zestful life.

You‘ll leave the session renewed, re- energised and ready to “Ignite Your inner Power”

Your Self Empowerment coach

Rhushana Kamaldien





Transformational Coach, Author, podcaster, speaker Founder of Company : Graceful Living Author : Ignite the Powerful You and Thirteen heartfelt stories.

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