Allison Washington this was such an enlightening read for me! As I’m sure you’re aware, porn and society in general have painted a picture of what a ‘normal labia’ looks like — all tucked in, neat and clean, nothing hanging out and getting in the way. There’s a huge group of women who even get surgery to make their ‘oversized’ labia smaller. When my (wow, never thought I’d be discussing this publicly…forgive me if you later find this deleted) labia causes problems as I walk, hangs out a bit too much, or needs to be tucked in I actually feel the least feminine. It actually makes me feel masculine, because I’m told that only men need to adjust themselves.