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Abstract Somebody

Abstract Somebody

The Escape and the fight for freedom from my abuser

I had begun having flashbacks about all the ways my former abuser had hurt me and tried to downplay it. I was finally accepting that yes…

Feb 26, 2021

Feb 26, 2021

Abstract Somebody

He could have just let us be

After too many death threats, too much verbal abuse, too many sexual assaults, too many lies, too much gaslighting, too much infidelity…

Dec 22, 2020

Dec 22, 2020

Abstract Somebody

The Trauma Bonding

I have been seeing “trauma bonding” in my social media feed a bunch the last few days, and one post said it in a way that finally helped me…

Dec 11, 2020

Dec 11, 2020

Abstract Somebody

The Forbidden Cereal Bowl

Once upon a time, I was something of a stepmom to three of my kids' siblings. These kids exist because my former abuser is an irresponsible…

Dec 4, 2020

Dec 4, 2020

Abstract Somebody

Blessed Samhain

31 October 2020

Oct 31, 2020

Oct 31, 2020

Abstract Somebody

Butterscotch apple spice cake

butterscotch apple spice cake in the oven cuz the world is terrible and I needed to create.

Oct 8, 2020

Oct 8, 2020

Abstract Somebody

A bit of word vomit about me, Abbi Somebody

I was a poor kid and now I’m a poor adult. I’m not the poorest, mind you. I was always painfully aware that no matter how bad I thought I…

Jul 30, 2020

A bit of word vomit about me, Abbi Somebody

Jul 30, 2020

Abstract Somebody

No more excuses

My former abuser told me some things that definitely explain his relationship with sex, and why he hates women and sexualizes children…

Jun 30, 2020

Jun 30, 2020

Abstract Somebody

“He didn’t hit me, but…”

A poem for my ex. (I don’t follow the rules of iambic pentameter)

Apr 13, 2020

Apr 13, 2020

Abstract Somebody

If your friend is worried about the #MeToo movement, or #maybehedoesnthityou, or #WhyIdidntreport…

I have a temporary stay away/no contact order against my abuser for me and my kids, finally. Powers that be are finally listening to us. I…

Apr 9, 2020

Apr 9, 2020

Abstract Somebody

Abstract Somebody

Living with PTSD as a survivor of DV. Exvangelical polytheistic pagan. Parent. Genderfluid gremlin. Kitchen witch.

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