Your candid honesty is refreshing. My wife seems to flow, in her expressions, a lot like this. During and after my military service I worked with many women on my team. I’m very glad that I was able to understand that when they (women) were at the wheel I could get some sleep. (During tours of duty). Some how I managed to give them enough space to be themselves and the high end performers they are/were. Thanks for the insight. It confirms many things about us as men that I’ve considered for years … many years. “Expectations” are a bitch aren’t they?