when you fall in love,
fall in love with a person, not an idea.
fall in love with a man of reality, not a man of illusion.
fall in love with a man that is himself around you,
not with a man that shows you what he wants you to see.
fall in love with a man that makes you comfortable, that makes you reveal your true self. to the ugliest, goofiest bit.
fall in love with a man that respects you.
your body, your opinions, your constructs and measures, you.
fall in love with a man that is in love with God,
not with a man that is in love with himself.
fall in love with a man that listens to you.
fall in love with a man that you trust and trusts you,
fall in love with a man that trusts himself,
fall in love with a man that trusts God.
fall in love with a man that admits his defeats, embraces his weaknesses.
fall in love with a man that recognizes his virtues, assesses his talents,
yet keeps his feet on the ground.
fall in love with a man that smiles with you, cries with you,shares his life with you.
fall in love with a man who desires to be in your life.
fall in love with a man that fights for you and with you.
fall in love with a man that supports you
and encourages you to reach your goals and passions.
fall in love with a man that loves you for who you are,
not for what you do, not for what he wants you to be.
fall in love with someone you deserve, never settle for less because you are worth it.
fall in love with a man that brings peace about the relationship.
fall in love with a man that makes you happy, not depressed.
fall in love with a man that argues with you, and finds a solution with you.
fall in love with a man that knows what he wants, and pursues his goals.
not a man that just goes with the flow and see where the current takes him
the trickiest part, believe that he is out there, somewhere, looking for you too.
there is a match God has created for you, you are someone’s rib.
so don’t give up on love. it will come around, in His time.
and when the time comes, do not doubt a second.
just fall in love
