Why is a narcissist always angry

A relationship with a narcissist is often an unpleasant, uncomfortable, and traumatic experience.

You are constantly on edge, uncertain of what will happen next. You walk on eggshells, trying not to offend the narcissist with your words or actions. You’re hyper-aware of their reactions, as even small things can trigger irritation or anger. Because the narcissist is unpredictable, often driven by sudden impulses or whims without clear purpose, you feel the need to carefully filter everything you say and do to avoid conflict.

Narcissists are frequently angry and irritated for several reasons. They fear being exposed and are terrified that others will discover their true nature. Their ultimate goal is not to have a healthy, reciprocal relationship but rather one where they take without giving. As a result, they become upset when their partners express their own needs or question their motives. Narcissists believe they should not be held accountable for their actions, and when confronted or asked to explain their behaviour, they often react aggressively to avoid having to justify themselves. This hostility is intended to silence their partner and stop any further uncomfortable questioning.

A narcissist aims to refute your arguments and trains you to suppress your feelings, needs, and thoughts. They seek to halt your personal development and prevent actions that benefit you. The narcissist does not want you to express yourself, mentally or emotionally, as they need to keep much about themselves hidden. By…