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Intuitive Healer Katarina Winslow
reflects on love

Published in February 2019

It is that time of the year again when we are supposed to, and sometimes even asked to be, romantic. We are encouraged to see the world through rose-tinted glasses and cherish our loved ones. The pinker, the better. Candle lights are decorating the restaurant tables for us to be still and look deep into each other’s eyes. When we feel this good, love is natural. In the moments of romance, we feel committed to the wellbeing of our partner, without condition. To be romantic is to be in a position of generosity towards the other. In love, we feel safe in being on the giving and receiving end. Saint Valentin is here for us to really see and connect to the person that is in our heart. Romantic love is wonderful at its best and painful as its worst. When we embrace love, when we are in the state of love, we see the beauty in feeling united as one. But for love to last you need to also feel like one and united within yourself, with and without the beloved. Otherwise, it won’t be long before the ego of each person start to feel uncomfortable with the ‘oneness’ that love has created.
After a while, when the first pink clouds start to disperse, people start asking whose ‘oneness’ is it that we have actually created. In love, we go from feeling wholly united with the other, abandoning our self in the union, often wanting to regain our authentic selves and our independence and identity. The transition from the first infatuation to lasting love is softer when two people in love are whole within themselves. When you are whole, love is less subject to disappointments and failure as you bring your unity into the wholeness of love. Love is easier when it comes not from need but from the desire to experience more of yourself in the mirror of the other.
But what is love in its essence? Love is just that, wholeness. Love is the unity we feel in the first moments of new love. Love is the absence of fear. Love is the feeling of complete oneness with the other and everything beyond. Love is also the truth of who we are before entering the dual reality of terrestrial life. Love is, to put it simply, an absolute feeling of being whole and united. Looking deeper, we find that love is our essence. Love is the one thing that remains when we remove all the illusions of ourselves. Love is our center.
Love is where we came from, and love is where we will return.
Unfortunately, the illusion that keeps us from feeling whole and united has multiple layers. We all probably have at least one thing that we believe about ourselves that can take us out of the state of love in a heartbeat. We all carry illusions about ourselves and about others that we have gathered during our childhood and upbringing, and new ones, throughout life.
At the end of the day, we all live our lives from our personal illusionary veil of reality. Everything is an illusion. If you are curious about this idea of illusion, you will find more answers in Don Miguel Ruiz’s book “The Four Agreements: A Practical Guide to Personal Freedom.”
The illusions that keep us from loving ourselves can be things like; I am not good enough, I am too much, I am worthless, I am bad, or simply I am not allowed to be. The biggest illusion of all could even be that I am not allowed to exist. The illusions we might carry about others could be things like; others are not trustworthy, others don’t care about me, others think I am awkward, or others don’t want me to be here. Of course, if we walk around with these kinds of illusionary beliefs, it is difficult to feel whole. There is always a disturbing element that is wanting to destroy our wholeness and peace, our feelings of love. It is as if we have a pin that we use to prick a hole in our love balloon. Whenever our thoughts of ‘less than’ and ‘not good enough’ surface in our minds, the pink air evaporate quickly. The mind, or the ego, is an expert at piercing our love balloons and keep us suffering, keep us separated from love. The ego is our pin. And love is our balloon. We all have one of each.
Looking at it in this light, one could imagine how beautiful the world would be if we all just threw away our pins. Then the only thing left on this earth would be loving balloons, surfacing the planet. Wow, then the world would be pink and fluffy. Everybody would just be floating together, high in the sky. Letting the air we breathe lift us to higher grounds and allowing the sunshine on our whole and heart-centered beings. There would be no threats to our balloons. In that reality, we would be able to keep the feeling of wholeness at all times.
Now, this is difficult for us as human beings, because we need our egos to keep us safe. The pin we carry is there for a reason; it is part of our survival mechanism. It is the ego that keeps us from not walking out into the street without looking. It is the ego that protects us and guards us against dangers. The ego is the sword we can protect and defend ourselves with.
But it is also the one thing that keeps us from feeling whole and feeling love. The ego is an expert at suffering, as it keeps us separated from the wholeness. But we can change the ego’s role into being the friend that gently reminds us that we are not where we are supposed to be, with your thoughts and your feelings. Let it be the light that illuminates how far from the love you are. When you feel bad and separated, let the discomfort be a sign of how far away from your essence you have traveled. Each time the ego speaks thoughts of separation, ring the bells of love. Bring yourself back to wholeness as often as you can. Always bring yourself back to love.
Let it be a bell that tells you that you are in the wrong place. When you feel bad and separated, it is very simple. You feel this way because your entire being is yelling at you, “You are in the wrong place!”. It is as if your whole being says, “Do I need to make you feel even worse before you understand that you are not where you are supposed to be?” …

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Intuitive Healer Katarina Winslow
reflects on the present

Published in December 2018/January 2019

The time for the winter break is upon us and the church bells ring out this year, too, even if there is a lot of fear, doubts, and drama in the world. The delight of the Christmas celebrations is once again illuminating our winter darkness as we rejoice in happy times. We celebrate, we eat, and we drink to be merry. The songs of twinkling stars and reindeer sleighs warm our hearts in the cold.

All our gifts are waiting patiently under the Christmas tree, in kitchen cabinets or in our shopping bags. The gifts with which we will be able to communicate how much we care for each other and how much we appreciate the person we want to surprise. Even though we were given strict instructions about what to buy, the color code and the model! …

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Intuitive Healer Katarina Winslow
reflects on our true nature

Published in November 2018

To be inquisitive is part of who I am, and curiosity has brought me answers to many questions over the years. The answers have come through my own experience, through other people and through messages from my guides, my angels, the ones who care for us all from the other side of life. Approaching middle age, I admit there has been quite some time for serious reflection. As a teenager, I investigated the selfish gene theory, the idea that everything in nature is based on the survival of the gene. Then I did a deep dive into my own psyche and its hidden corners. Doing time travel to other realms and seeing visions from out of space about the future of humanity, I saw people waking up all over the planet. There were beautiful trees everywhere, and as each tree cracked open there was a person walking out of it. It was a beautiful vision and it happened everywhere. For me, the message was clear, everybody who has authentic wisdom will start speaking up, and we will wake up to the truth of our nature, a nature of compassion and care for everything that is living. Part of my mission in life is to help people find more happiness by guiding them to listen to their essence. To listen to the one part of them that is hard to hear when there is too much noise on the outside. …

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