John, there is plenty out there that is anti-women, including threats of rape & violence. Both of which are committed almost exclusively by men. Men need to accept responsibility. Instead of saying “not me,” ask what language you use about women, do you laugh at demeaning jokes about women, do you hang out with people who brag about sexual exploits? Many men, even many non-rapists, are enabling and perpetrating the ‘control of women’ mentality. You/men can be a powerful force in dispelling it.