If there were more dispassionate motherfuckers like me, the system would improve overall. I am a service provider and I am also rated dispassionately. I try not to stay in Lagos for too long as it screws up my standards. If you see the world the way most people in Lagos see Lagos, other dispassionate motherfuckers will eat you up. Lagos seems to encourage mediocrity and that is why things remain fucked up. That is why I moved.
Victor Asemota

Being a DMF is harder when you are a woman in Africa…. Nigeria is in a level of its own. But one has to be. People ‘hate’ me for it, yet I refuse to be engulfed by mediocrity. I refuse to become what I hate. Thanks for this Big Chief.

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