Making Decisions…Easier
Ever wonder how some people make big life changing decisions so easily? Do you struggle taking the first step for a life-changing decision? Read on for tips to make the decision-making process a bit easier and less stressful.
Do Your Research
Doing your research should be the first step in any decision, big or small. You don’t need anything complicated but learning the facts regarding your decision is very important. For example, understand the cost involved owning a pet, before you adopt one. Learning about a company before you accept a job offer. Some things you are not able to learn, until you are in the situation, such as work culture. However, asking questions of various contacts in your network is important research to help with your choice. Do as much as possible for a well-informed decision.
Consider Your Expectations
Next, what are your expectations for the outcome of your decision? What do you envision after you make the decision: to change jobs, have a child, or move across country? You need to keep your expectations in check. You also need to realize that nothing will be perfect after your decision is made. Blind spots are just that, you don’t know what you don’t know.
Understand, your support system and family are important. They have objective eyes on your situation and will help you with feedback, whether you want it or not. It’s important to accept feedback as a “reality check” before, during, and after your decision is made.
Stuck?
If you are not able to decide, then don’t. No action is a decision, and the status quo is sometimes better than making an even worst mistake. You might be experiencing a greater block, such as depression. Don’t make major decisions while depressed or in a state of anxiety. This is recommended since you are unable to distinguish the facts from your feelings. You might need to seek out a counselor for help.
Getting enough sleep, avoiding alcohol, and learning about your vulnerabilities will help you understand your mental state. Seek out help before you act on an important choice. Finally, understanding that you are not in the right frame of mind to decide is so important. Patience and time will help you navigate the right path for you!
