Thank you for sharing your story! I am a white woman and I am marrying my fiance, who is 100% Vietnamese, next month. I also grew up in white family in a largely white community. It literally took me MONTHS to realize my fiance (boyfriend at the time) and I were in an interracial relationship because I had only been told/seen it as a “black/white” thing. It’s crazy how society shapes our thinking so much.