The Mother’s Day That Almost Wasn’t

This past September my Mom was taken to the emergency where we found out she had pneumonia.

If I am being honest, I wasn’t sure she would make it out of the hospital, much less to Mother’s Day.

That week sitting next to Mom’s hospital bed, we had many opportunities to laugh, cry and share a lifetime of memories we built together.

But it was in the quiet moments, when she would drift off to sleep as I watched her breathe in and out, I was reminded the woman I am today is because of her and the lessons she taught me.

Lessons not always shared through words, but by her example.

Mom Taught Me About…

1- Faith

I don’t remember Mom ever preaching to me as a kid, but there was never any doubt who God is or how He loved me.

In the good times we thanked Him, in the difficult times, we ran to Him and in between those times, we felt Him. There was never a day we didn’t talk to God.

Mom showed me what unwavering faith looked like from a very early age.

2- Strength

Mom is one of the strongest woman I know. She survived a career as a military wife taking on the role of both mother and father when Daddy deployed, and she took care of my dad when he got sick and later died at an early age.

She showed me tears are not a sign of weakness, but a sign of being alive. And while tears will come whenever you least expect it, tears are a precursor to laughter, and both are needed to make it through this life.

Mom showed me strength comes when we allow ourselves to be vulnerable.

3- Commitment

My parents were married for 38 years before my dad passed away. There were good times as well as difficult times.

My Dad, an alcoholic for most of their marriage, spent the last 15 months of his life sober.

Mom loved him with her whole heart, but there were times she didn’t always like him.

She could have left him, but because she chose to love my Dad and stand by him, she became the support and the safe place to fall when he hit rock bottom.

Mom showed me how to believe in someone even when they don’t believe in themselves.

4- Life

We have two opportunities in this life; we can go through life, or we can GROW through life. If we choose to go through life, then we miss opportunities to become better versions of ourselves.

Sometimes life throws curve balls, and may knock us off our feet, but if we lay complaining and blaming others for our past, we will never move forward.

We can, however, take what comes our way and use it to grow. Pain and suffering are inevitable, but misery is optional. We have the choice to be miserable or happy.

Mom showed me there is something to be thankful for every day, and it is my responsibility to change my perspective during difficult circumstances.

5 — One Day At A Time

Abe Lincoln said, “The best thing about the future is it comes one day at a time.”

We can’t change the past and we can’t control the future, so trying to do either of these will take away from who were are today.

Mom showed me that this moment is what we have right now and to minimize it by worry is not appreciating the gift of today.

Thankfully, Mom recovered from her illness last year, and is doing well.

My Mom is a remarkable woman who has instilled in me my core values.

And as we celebrate Mother’s Day this weekend, I sit here grateful and blessed we have been given more time to cry, laugh and continue to build memories together.

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KatieMae is a writer and encourager. She lives in Washington state with her husband and their three dachshunds. You can find her on Twitter @Katiemaeonline, or her website http://www.katiemae.online .

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