… before you picked up a six of beer, what I am saying is mothers deserve more. A day is nice, sure. But what is nicest of all is when our partners, families, communities, states and — heck, let’s get crazy! — our country and government, put their money and hearts where their fake lace shitty-ass Mother’s Day cards are.
…e and came out of Stanford CS so this candidate must be at least marginally competent as well”. But inclusion rings hollow if all it does is give opportunities to people who have plenty of opportunities, and only identifies talent that is already easier to identify.
So on our way to become “better men,” many marginalized groups have to deal with our learning process, bearing the brunt of the weight. In this case, it is most often women, femmes of all genders, nonbinary folk, and queer folks. Learning requires test subjects, and those test subjects are the recipients of all of the mistakes we have to make in order to unlearn the oppressive ways we interact with women and treat them as objects, not humans.