Well, just as humans are diverse, complex and complicated,so is love. To take two complex entities and make a well ticking clockwork is a continuous work and art. It’s constant gardening. It’s also having the basics/ideals, ideas and so on/well set from the start, otherwise life will find a way to prove you wrong in your choice. I have a 32 years long marriage of love that has not faded…on the contrary ;). So yes, there is such a thing as LOVE. And you’re right, it’s about giving first and foremost. Marriage is an option and in our case it was the one that came naturally for us. Each of its own. I support choices and diversity.
Your writing is powerful and you have a very attractive voice in your words. I might gracefully disagree on certain opinions but on the whole I enjoyed reading the entire piece.
