Kayden Melling
Sep 5, 2018 · 1 min read

The thing about it is that these kind of things don’t just happen to those who are attracted to the bad or the low of self esteem. People find themselves in these types of situations all the time. I think many times, once a person has found themselves in this type of situation it tends to get worse and worse. It may start out being physical abuse, but as we see here in this post, it turns from one type of abuse to another, and possibly even both at the same time. For example, at the beginning she began to think that these reactions were out of love and it was just a way of showing emotion, but then it quickly turned into a manipulative form of mental abuse as well. The beautiful thing about life in general is that we have to opportunity to control our own destinies. We are our own masters. We have the power to choose where we go, what we do, and how we react to the decisions of others. And that is something that no one can take away from us. It is a God given gift that is the one thing that is rightfully ours and will be ours for as long as our minds allow us to comprehend. When we are put in these situations we have the power to pull ourselves out. It may be hard, but as Maggie so wonderfully put “The good thing about code is that it can be rewritten.”

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