I understand this, from an entirely different perspective. Today would have been my brother’s 14th wedding anniversary, except his wife had to “get her affairs in order” two years ago. When she was 32, leaving him and his 6 year old and 4 year old sons. My sister and mom moved in with them and my husband, daughters and I do what we can to help as much as possible. The pain and anguish is too much. So, yes, I know what this is doing to you and to your kids. This fekking disease has to be combated somehow, someway. Jim I do not know what to say to you. I know there isn’t anything to make you feel better. I’m listening. Writing about it helps. And I’m very sorry.