How can you survive having kids without being a little Adultish?
If you’ve never heard of the word Adultish then stop right, I’m not responsible for corrupting you.
If you are the mother that loves those “community events” that miraculously schedule themselves in taverns with other like minded mothers then read on.
Where’s the fine line between being responsible or someone calling child services on you?
Adultish is loving your kids, but giving them some freedom usually enough that you feel that twinge of guilt easily taken care of by a nice glass of red wine.
Adultish is being an adult, but not being a REAL adult, get it?
There are some benefits to being Adultish:
You get the best videos on your camera.
The adult in us sees the bad ending to many of our children, yet the Adultish in us sees many great stories and quite possibly that viral video that could make us all rich.
I tell my children not to do something. They sneak behind my back convinced that my advice “you’ll get hurt” isn’t real. Now I am sure Darwin may be at work here, but not my child, so I’m quiet until I hear the squeal. Do I comfort first? No. I say, “What did I tell you?”
Better yet, sometimes I’m filming.
Being Adultish means any decision is good decision because you are the Adult.
“Tonight’s the night of Breakfast for dinner!” Plates of Egos and Pop Tarts all around!
Sure you can tell them you’re beat and don’t feel like cooking but with enough Adultish authority, they’ll all cheer Breakfast for Dinner idea!
Being Adultish means you are allowed to give yourself a break.
Sure you’ve got a long list of things to do, which all eek of responsibility.
Then your non adult friends inform you they are heading to the pub to solve the problems of the world.
Just for one.
Time to take one for saving Humanity.
Adultish saves you money.
Adults only Gluten Free, Organic, From Friendly Farms, Without Any Preservatives, Lightly Massaged Cereal or Chicken or Meat or even Produce.
Their kids are used to the taste of cardboard.
Adultish justifies that box of Pumpkin Spice doughnuts because, well, because, ummm, because……
It was ON SALE!
Most of all Adultish lets you not take yourself so seriously, laugh at the different lessons you’ve learned (not fails) especially that idea of putting a tissue box of ping pong balls around your waist, then trying to empty the box by gyrating as hard as you can.
What? You haven’t tried that party game?
Well then you must be an adult, not a REAL adult.