Amanda Roman
Aug 27, 2017 · 1 min read

Count me among the group that gets points for neither. I keep wracking my brain for any memories of pre-pubertal feminine feelings, but no luck. Having a story that differs from the standard trans narrative is really invalidating, and I’m still struggling with the “not trans enough” feelings.

Thank you for providing this support for those of us who didn’t always know. For many, the first step in figuring out who you are is realizing what you want.

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    Amanda Roman

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    Gamer, cyclist, data nerd, and writer of trans things

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