Dear Straight Men, Stop Being So Afraid of Anal

Kennedi Massy
Nov 6 · 4 min read

Let me preface this by saying I am well-aware that sexual tastes and preferences are incredibly vast and varied. And when it comes to anal or any other “taboo” interest, not everyone wants it, not everyone likes it.

But as a cis male whose sexuality is rather comically nuanced (hopefully an essay to come soon on that), I sit back and laugh to myself when a man remarks about how he’d never try anal himself “because he isn’t gay” — oh, how much you have yet to learn.

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Kennedi Massy

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Indie writer exploring human sexuality through erotic fiction, romance, and the occasional non-fiction piece.

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