Well said.
This is something that so many people get wrong. Men and women are both human but our basic emotional and social wiring is very different. Mens protective and aggressive nature is designed to compliment womens nurturing and emotive nature. Reversing the roles or attempting to mix them is a disaster a million years in the making.
Society and social engineering have made a mockery of genetic predisposition and has failed utterly in its desire to homogenize humanity into a single creature in a one size fits all mold.
Society faces the wrath of nature now due to the failure of sexual homogeny. Marriage and family are dying institutions because men are not women and women are not men, but society demands we be the same.
The old phrase “Just be yourself” has never been more appropriate. As you pointed out so eloquently, men want to do things for her, it feeds a deep seated need in a man to be useful and protective. We do not require and actually resent it when a woman tries to do the same. By the same token, women have a built in desire for attention and adulation, they require the frequent affirmation of their desirability and emotional value from their man.
Attempting to reengineer an entire species behavior is about as useful as capping a volcano. It may sound good on paper but nature will not be bottled up.
