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A Parent Is Born

Our Father’s Tears

Here I sit, on the cusp of Father’s Day, feeling both with and without Father — while the earth has a fever and pirates run amuck.

Jun 11, 2020

Our Father’s Tears

Jun 11, 2020

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A Rare and Endangered Thing

Negative space is the footprint of absence. It is the other realm. For those of us who have crossed the tropic of loss, it can swallow us…

Sep 6, 2020

A Rare and Endangered Thing

Sep 6, 2020

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The Divorce Club

It was the type of abandon unique to crisis and duress — when going kamikaze seems like a sound and wise decision.

Aug 9, 2021

The Divorce Club

Aug 9, 2021

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P.S. I Love You

Brené Brown and John Gottman on Running Headlong Into Heartbreak

Our relationships do not die from one swift blow. They die from the thousand tiny cuts that precede it.

Aug 10, 2020

Brené Brown and John Gottman on Running Headlong Into Heartbreak

Aug 10, 2020

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P.S. I Love You

On the Importance of Breaking Promises

I’ve decided to teach my daughter that breaking promises to others is a critical skill when juxtaposed against breaking a promise to…

Aug 19, 2020

On the Importance of Breaking Promises

Aug 19, 2020

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Better Humans

What Can Regret Psychology Teach Us About a Marriage in Crisis?

Discerning the costs of taking action versus staying put.

Feb 16, 2023

dark room with woman sitting on edge of window looking at open sky with a telescope.

Feb 16, 2023

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When It Behooves You to Be Wrong

In the land of uncertainty, curiosity is a pretty badass skill

Mar 17, 2022

Person about to slip on a banana peel or banana skin .

Mar 17, 2022

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Better Humans

On Chronic Ambivalence and the Torments of Uncertainty

There’s no magic eight-ball you can shake that will tell you whether to stay or leave a relationship.

Mar 15, 2022

Uncertainty, doubt and insecurity in the future. Risky footpath road through water vanishing in distance, dark stormy moody clouds bringing bad weather coming towards.

Mar 15, 2022

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P.S. I Love You

I’d Like to Make a Case for Permissable Insanity Tempered With Love

We are channeling smartphones and laptops to act as surrogates and provide us with the human equivalent of touch and body language, and…

Jan 24, 2022

I’d Like to Make a Case for Permissable Insanity Tempered With Love

Jan 24, 2022

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Being Alone in Your Marriage Is Not The Same as Being Alone

There is a sweet spot in between serial monogamy and desolation.

Sep 3, 2021

Being Alone in Your Marriage Is Not The Same as Being Alone

Sep 3, 2021

Kerry Lusignan

Kerry Lusignan

Writer | Better Humans | PS I Love You | Soft and scrappy artist whose primary medium is relationships | Say hi at https://www.northamptoncouplestherapy.com

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