Fyodor Dostoevsky’s Philosophy of Love and Sex

Elan Kesilman-Davin, Ph.D.
5 min readJun 17, 2024

It’s still relevant today

a woman and man laying down and looking at each other as if in love
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Did you know that Fyodor Dostoevsky’s love life included a secret engagement and a scandalous affair?

These experiences deeply influenced his views on love and morality, which are central themes in his famous works. Dostoevsky’s stories explore themes like morality, redemption, and the struggle between good and evil, often through the lens of love and sex.

I first encountered Dostoevsky as a freshman in college when I read Crime and Punishment. The intensity of Raskolnikov’s inner turmoil gripped me, but it wasn’t until recently that I began to appreciate Dostoevsky’s philosophical depth. His exploration of love and sex, shaped by his tumultuous romantic life, offers deep insights into the human condition.

In 19th-century Russia, the Orthodox Church had conservative views on love and sex. Marriage was often seen as a social contract rather than a romantic union, and extramarital relationships were frowned upon. These cultural attitudes are evident in Dostoevsky’s works, which frequently depict the tension between social pressures and personal desires.

Dostoevsky’s personal experiences significantly shaped his views on love and sex. He had a turbulent romantic life, including two marriages and several passionate affairs.

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Elan Kesilman-Davin, Ph.D.

Elan Kesilman-Davin, Ph.D. is an English and Psychology professor who writes about literature, writing, psychology, and philosophy.