Why I Decided To Do Sex Work After Retirement
I started hearing that I would make a great dominatrix when I was in my late 20’s. Back then, I had a husband and two small children, there was no way I would ever entertain the idea of such a thing.
In my mind, these leather clad, whip wielding women were sleeping around and that was just not in my makeup. I didn’t begrudge them but it was just not the life for me. Years later, after my divorce, men would tell me I was intimidating. That would bother me because I was just being me and it seemed it would mean I would spend a lot of time single when at the time, I wanted someone special in my life. However, I have always been quite confident, intelligent and ambitious. I would not short circuit that for anyone and just accepted that I required a special man or I would simply enjoy and embrace being alone.
A few years ago, over lunch with a friend, I was once again told I would make a great dominatrix. I still really had no idea what they did but told her, I have no desire to have sex with strangers (I was still quite clueless). She told me she has a friend who was earning a minimum of $1k a day just humiliating men on the phone, over skype and via text. I laughed, thought she was joking but I was intrigued. I’d been doing this for free for years I teased. I went home and started my research and was really shocked to learn that what she told me was very true for not just her friend but for hundreds of women and the best part, they would pay me loads of money and I never had to remove a stitch of clothing. All these years, I thought working in the sex industry meant SEX in the carnal sense.
During my research, I learned that age, weight, color and all the other things you would think of were not barriers to working in the world of sex. Recently, I came across a story of a 68 year old woman who is doing very well for herself as a dominatrix. This intrigued me even more since I am older than many of the women I saw represented in the industry. Another thing I had no desire to do was to dance in front of a camera wearing very little if anything at all. I wanted to be a part of the industry but I never wanted to show my most personal parts and I never wanted to meet people in person.
Again, more research. Now, I will say this about any business, understanding what you are getting into is essential. Planning your path, in my opinion, is also important. There are so many ways to earn income in this industry without having sex or showing your most private parts, for those with that confidence or desire, I say go for it. The photo above is as much skin as you will ever see from me. We as women should totally be in charge of our own sexuality and there are no wrong ways to be you. I started learning of various fetishes, desires and wants that didn’t require me to be nude. There are many earning from selling pictures of body parts like feet, shoulders and even armpits. There are those that sell used panties and then those like me who feel a special brand of excitement when it comes down to telling a man how small his penis is. This is called small penis humiliation and I will be honest, I would have never have thought in a million years that this would bring me pleasure but I enjoy it immensely.
I’m just getting started but I made sure that I figured out the direction I wanted to go before stepping out. I also played with this in my real life to see if I was cut out for it. If I could humiliate a man standing in front of me, doing so via phone or video would be that much easier. I can set my own hours, wear fun and sexy clothes and earn in the comfort of my own home. Like with any other business, patience is required, money doesn’t come overnight. I understand this as I take what I once offered for free and make it a source of revenue. I have not been so excited about starting something as I have this. I hope you will follow my journey, this is the first of many articles. I will share the real deal on working in the sex industry after retirement. I can’t speak to anyone else’s experience but so far, I have been embraced by the women in the industry and I am looking forward to my new career.