This is one of the best articles I have ever read about non-monogamy and I thank you so much for writing it. You spoke a lot of truths here. I, too, learned a lot of these lessons this last year while exploring the world of non-monogamy with a partner who I am no longer with. You also pointed out some stuff I really needed to hear right now and for that I am grateful. What you wrote here makes me less resentful of the lifestyle after my experiences with it, and even more open to the possibility that with the right partner, I could definitely make it work for me. More people need to hear your words and I will share it in the poly group I belong to with over 30000 members. I think many would appreciate your words as much as I did. (o: