Then how do you reconcile gender and a non-gender God scripturally?
Nature of the beat

Not really. You just remember that no language has a personal pronoun for “none of the above.” :-)

Or, that God chose a presentation method that matches with the times.

And, remember that “created in the image of God” has always been interpreted as both men and women alike. I don’t recall any commentator ever suggesting that men were created in the image of God but not women.