The Secret Reason For Twin Flame Separation

(Maybe there’s a lesson there)

Before we begin, it’s important to note one thing: If you’re looking for a feel good article about twin flames, you may want to stop reading now. I wish I could lie to you and regurgitate the same nonsense so many others do, telling you how separation is temporary or that it’s caused by your attachment to them.

It would be kind to give you false hope, but ultimately, pointless.

Instead, what I’m going to attempt to do is explain to you that the separation with your twin flame isn’t what you think it’s about. Mostly, it’s about self-care and realizing separation is a self fulfilling prophecy.

It isn’t about getting back together with them, simply because you can’t even be sure the person you’re obsessed with is your twin flame. So many people claim the title of the relationship but are just playing out the worst kind of victim mentality and codependency. Most dynamics that I’ve observed have been fundamentally sick, resulting in years and years of no communication, separation, and stress/suffering.

The truth is, the sheer amount of energy expended to get something, regardless of how good you perceive it to be, almost never comes towards you. It’s true of relationships, and it’s true of money, friendships, jobs, and squirrels.

You have to be gentle, careful, and patient when trying to get a small animal to come towards you, and above all else, you need to be willing to be okay if they don’t come at all.