Women’s Attitude: Keeping Up Long Term Relationship
If you’re a woman wondering if you can be involved in a long term relationship, even more — Marriage, reading this will be a good start

I am going to celebrate my 6th relationship anniversary this December. Many friends asked “how could you maintain that for years? Aren’t you even bored?” Yeah sure, boring will come eventually it’s just how you two can make it go. Anyway, I will try to breakdown some of my “play role” as a good girlfriend which I believe have been supporting this relationship to be functional.
A lot of relationship is shortly broken by the girl’s unbearable attitude. What is unbearable? I should be treated like a Queen! Why do you take so long to reply! Whatever just leave me alone! (scream after he left). Seriously get rid of that.
Give Him Space
The first months of relationship is when you fall in love the most and spend everything together. Don’t let this drag on, you have to realize both of you have another social life that shouldn’t be thrown away. Smoothly courage your partner that it’s okay if he want to spend time with his friends or alone. As of, you give you take, he’ll just OK and happy if you are spending time without him.
Keep in mind this doesn’t mean he didn’t want to hang out with you anymore, you can take the opportunity to also go out with your friends and gives you variation to avoid boring in your relationship.
Don’t ever make your man choose between you or his friends, social life is also important.
Try To Give Them Trust
I gotta say trust is number one key for successful relationship, you will meet peace once you put aside your insecurities and jealousy. Also, giving trust will train them to be responsible. No man want to be disturbed every single minute by your text asking him what is he doing and who is he with or give you activity report per day!
You can learn how to trust from positive thinking, i.e. he is not answering your call = No, he is not hitting some chick, maybe he still in the shower or installing new games or sleeping or other stupid things, Right.
He Doesn’t Have To Do Everything For You
My boyfriend and of course most of guy will feel very lucky if you don’t give him any burden. Yes he is a male but doesn’t mean he has to open every door for you. Here are few things i did :
#1 If we are going on a date to a place that is closer to his i wouldn’t ask him to pick me up first, i’ll always prefer effective way like i just meet him in the spot and there you go, easier, faster.
#2 If we are in a rush for a movie time i don’t mind running first to buy tickets while he search for a car park
Trust me guy would kill for not losing an independent woman, for some man the more you do things by yourself the more he will try to find other things that he can do to help you and it would make him even better! Careful, men’s pride will take the lead and give him idea that you don’t need him anymore if you are too self-determined.
Do You Care Enough?
Caring is one of the way to show your love for him, noticing small simple things about your guy usually impress them. These are exquisite example of caring : give advice on his looks (clothes/haircut/shoes), remind him — not forcing — to take it easy about his health and work life, make a surprise once in a while and so on.
He Is Not a Mind Reader

In stereotype way, our emotion and feeling comes first but it’s a logic for our guy. We are members of different culture to some extent, whenever there are cultural differences people don’t instantly comprehend the other.
Aggravated with women behavior that we will be satisfied if a man can just know and do what we want without even telling them. But we have to reconsider that not everyone can do that especially when you just start the relationship, give him some times to learn.
It has been a popular talk that women are very complex and they are wondering how to understand us so doing reverse psychology and giving codes to man only make it worse. If you want something, save yourself a time and anger, you can discuss to him honestly and straight forward.
Be Great in Bed
Sex is an important factor for relationship, that’s an intimate experience to stay connected which strengthen your feeling towards your partner. The oxytocin known as a love hormone released during sex will make you feel that you need to love and trust him. Sex also helps our body maintain hormonal balance so we can calm emotional problems like stress and anxiety and feel closer physically and emotionally
To keep the fire burning you can make research to spice things up at night. Also keep your body healthy and it wouldn’t hurt to buy yourself some skincare and outfit, go invest for a great look.
This is a bonus for all of you with a gamer, stay strong and keep reading
Deal With Gaming Habit
Dota, PES, Assassin Creed you name it my boyfriend played it. Luckily I identify him as a casual-passionate gamer. In my case, I find letting this gaming as “giving him space”. He often ask me to play with him even though I am not a good player, I think of it as a goodwill so I try jump in and it turns out just like we spending time together and had fun, sometimes I just watch him play. This made him feel special and appreciated.
What you have to pay attention is if number of hours he spend playing starts to ruin your relationship it doesn’t count as you give him space anymore, and if you just can’t stand it you can simply talk about it but don’t vigorously destroy his console, he will hate you.
Make a point that you’re not against his hobby, your main concern is on how little time he spends with you and your relationship.