Kim BentzWil Wheaton wrote a sad and wonderful piece called “This is what gaslighting looks like.”My gaslighted was a prominent pediatrician in our town. Nearly every ailment I had he claimed was “all in my head” or that I was being…Dec 4, 2021Dec 4, 2021
Kim BentzLeaving the PuddlesI’m trying to explain to a friend how I feel about the difference between the Orthodox Church and the Protestant churches I was raised in…Jan 25, 2017Jan 25, 2017
Kim BentzBecoming Orthodox.It’s the title of a book by Peter Gillquist, certainly, but for this “convert”, it is an expression I use all the time. In many ways it…Jan 4, 2017Jan 4, 2017
Kim BentzPartingsI came to her one last time before the long drive west. I needed to visit her, to talk to her, to tell her I was going. I had a cough and…Aug 31, 2016Aug 31, 2016
Kim BentzA Pebble or a TreeOnce you get over the idea that you are somehow irreplaceable, it becomes easier to leave a place — in theory, at least. This notion that I…Aug 4, 2016Aug 4, 2016
Kim BentzOnwardThe next class starts on Monday, four days after I undergo sinus surgery, the description of which overflows the pre-op surgery checklist…Jul 27, 2016Jul 27, 2016
Kim BentzMute With HorrorI am highly aware of my white-ness today. I don’t often think a lot about race, as I grew up in a very mixed neighborhood, and for a long…Jul 9, 2016Jul 9, 2016
Kim BentzAnother TimeIt was my birthday. 1978. The gifts were on top of the baby grand piano. I believe there were four gifts, but I had eyes for only one. I…Apr 12, 2016Apr 12, 2016
Kim BentzBig Hair, and Other ThingsDo you ever wonder whether Attention Deficit Disorder isn’t actually a name for what happens to some people when they don’t get enough…oh…Apr 11, 2016Apr 11, 2016